OP has never known the identity of their biological father, as their mother has never shared that information. She has been married to Bryce since OP was eight, but OP has never really liked him. Bryce is rude, overly religious, and pushy. He would tickle OP against their will and even discard their belongings for not being “holy” enough. When OP turned 18, they moved out and now live with their friends Dina and Rob, who treat their kids well and don’t impose strict religious beliefs on them. OP’s discomfort with Bryce intensifies as they observe Rob’s nurturing parenting style.
During lunch with their mom and Dina, OP shared their feelings about Bryce. Their mom left in tears, unwilling to discuss it further. When Bryce overstepped boundaries at a family gathering, OP confronted him, which led to a heated argument. Now, feeling isolated and uncertain, OP is left wondering what to do next, caught between their discomfort with Bryce and the consequences of their confrontation.
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1. This story revolves around stepdad drama.
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2. OP doesn’t know their biological father. Mom, who’s been with Bryce (dad) since OP was 8, won’t discuss it.
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3. OP dislikes Bryce; he’s rude, overly religious, and pushy. He tickled OP against their will and threw away their belongings.
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4. OP moved out at 18 due to issues and now lives with friends Dina (26) and Rob (28). They’re considering moving states, and OP’s contemplating joining.
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5. Watching Rob with his kids makes OP uneasy around Bryce. Unlike Bryce, Rob doesn’t impose religion or restrict their interests or attire. OP discusses this with Dina, anticipating backlash.
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6. During lunch with Dina, OP told Mom they didn’t see Bryce as Dad anymore. Mom cried and left, avoiding further discussion.
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7. At lunch with Aunt Lowla, Bryce insisted on calling OP “Daddy’s Little Girl” and clinging to them despite others’ discomfort.
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8. In a heated confrontation, OP told Bryce he wasn’t their dad, citing discomfort and past abuse. They rejected any future familial role for him.
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9. OP feels isolated after a confrontation with family. They regret their reaction but are tired of feeling disrespected and unsure about their next steps.
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Comments on this Story:
10. You’re not alone in feeling this way, OP. We’re here to listen and support you.
11. Setting boundaries was important at this point.
12. Sending positive vibes your way, OP. You’re stronger than you think.
13. One’s well-being comes first.
14. People are giving emotional support to OP.
15. It takes courage to speak up and set boundaries. You did the right thing, OP.
16. May he become a better man.
17. Redditors are sending strength during this difficult time to OP.
18. Parents should know what’s appropriate and what is not.
19. The story is truly heartfelt and moving.
20. OP didn’t ruin anything but simply did the right thing.
