In a difficult family dynamic, a compassionate stepmother finds herself stuck between her stepdaughter’s yearning for stability and her ex-wife’s tendency to bring home pets on a whim. Over time, the stepdaughter has experienced the heartbreak of losing pets, often due to her mother’s erratic lifestyle. This has left the stepmother in a tricky spot—torn between protecting her stepdaughter’s emotions and managing her own household’s well-being.
Recently, the ex-wife reached out, asking the stepmother to temporarily care for yet another pet. Knowing how emotionally draining this could be for her stepdaughter, the stepmother made the tough call to say no. Her decision wasn’t made lightly—her home is already filled with pets, and she’s aware of the inevitable strain this new pet would place on everyone. Still, setting this boundary was a way to protect her stepdaughter from the emotional rollercoaster that often comes with her mother’s fleeting choices.
This leaves a question hanging in the air: Is the stepmother being too rigid, or is she right to prioritize the stability of her household? Read the full story and weigh in—do you think OP was justified, or does she come across as the A-hole in this situation? Let us know your thoughts!
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1. OP asks whether she’s an A-hole for not catsitting for her kid’s mother/
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2. OP’s stepdaughter’s mom keeps getting pets for their daughter which she can’t keep because she’s not prepared and moving frequently in life. Recently she gave away their dog and OP’s stepdaughter has been struggling with missing the dog.
3. Stepdaughter has also experienced pet loss this year. Their dog and cat died due to old age and it has been a rough year for the stepdaughter. Recently her mother got her a kitten so the stepdaughter asked OP if we could watch over the kitten for a week. Listening to this OP instantly said no.
4. OP told the users that they dumped the cat one OP and they looked after it for 15 years. OP already have cats moreover, they just brought a dog home so the house is full.
5. OP already knows that her mother is going to give this cat away and then again her young daughter will be devastated.
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6. OP now asks Redditors whether she’s an A-hole for saying no. Let’s see what users have to say.
Comments on this Story:
7. OP really should tell her this and she also needs to be educated regarding this. Pets are no toys you are supposed to take care of them indeed it is a responsibility.
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8. I actually think that the mother is acting like a child and ignorant too because she is old enough to know what must her daughter be going through after all this time.
9. Exactly OP is NTA here and more power to OP for standing her ground and protecting her daughter’s heart from being broken again.
10. This user is speaking facts. I mean yeah she can find someone online who would be catsitting her pet.
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11. Exactly, I feel bad for the poor girl she’s only 10. But I hope through these things she will learn a lot.
12. This could be a solution, what do you think ladies and gentlemen?
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13. It’s not fair to the kitten.
14. People are not feeling so well for the girl.
15. This issues needs to be communicated.
16. People are concerned about the daughter’s health.
17. The behavior could be psychologically unstable.
18. The husband should be taking care of the matter.
19. Cats also take longer time to accept a new pet in the house.
20. Many things have to be considered before getting a pet.
